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Understandable marriage

2012-02-11T09:09:00.002+08:00

I saw some touching & understandable post on fb........Here's the story begin~~ =)

Enjoy your time~

Married or not you should read this...

“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed -dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son—- I’m a loving husband….

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.

So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

If you don’t share this, nothing will happen to you.

If you do, you just might save a marriage. Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.

心里的纠缠声

2012-02-09T18:48:00.003+08:00

课业开始忙了，时间抽紧了。。该抛开的烦恼也只能在尽力而为中。。
随着年龄的增长，怀绕在身边不断徘徊着的种种冒险情况、问题、负担，有增无减，这个时候，只能说：不管事的，放了吧！
些时候，却很可恶地，你偏不解决，他偏死缠烂打！真的让人懊恼。。
还是归回我的原则，自律地调理做人处事，生活！

一旦我们进入年少时段，感情事还是逃不过大家的手掌~
幸福的幸福，努力的努力，悲愤的悲愤，等等等等等等情绪~
能不能长久，彼此之间的沟通程度才是为主，其他都只是次要！
性格方面，有耐心，有毅力，我相信还是可以被调教的。。^ ^我几乎从来不生气，因为我认为没必要，有问题就去解决，不要让别人的错误影响自己。
这是我大多时候感到快乐的秘诀。
但是，我不生气，不代表我没脾气。
我不计较，不代表我脾气好。
如果你非要触摸我的底线，我可以告诉你，我并非善良。

多数女边对感情线的角度：
对爱你的女人，你可以让她哭，让她受委屈，但不要让她沉默，因为无言是一种最深的伤痛，是一个女人最悲的哭声。你要知道，女人最爱倾诉，不管生活有多苦多难，无论她有没有心事，她都想和你讲述关于她的一切，这是她爱你的最好方式。如果有一天，她突然安静了，你也走到了后悔的边缘。
只要能舒舒服服地谈话，不管多废，多严肃，只要能抒发情感是最感安全的~ ^ ^
要决定，就选个能为你风光的男人！爱你！
狠毒地接受这一句：女人该自私，该决心知道他并不是你的唯一，别应要感伟大而宁可选择牺牲自己所能付出的一切不顾一切地为他努力。。为事业生活努力才会幸福，傻婆，哈哈！^ ^
大家，对感情事感到厌倦/累了。。别气馁~ 虽然2012已降临，不过一丝希望还有所保留在你的掌权之中~ 休息是为了走更长远的路。。加油吧！^ ^

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归回短期

“书呆子” / “宅女”

的生活

这学期，我暂停武术，

参与柔嫩运动-瑜伽！

+ 为未来写封信。

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心里的纠缠声

思嘉 | 2012年2月

传说中的“所谓·人”

2012-02-02T23:29:00.000+08:00

进入人生旅程中，看左看右再看左，一个接一个，身边的人物无论是单身或是双身，都还是一样为“人性”烦恼~

“人性”是最有趣的书，一生一世都看不完。。

不是吗？

自从我一人独自来到这鸟不生蛋的地方-金宝后，很习惯性地在这新环境自我保护，以免被伤害嘛。。XDD

久而久之，感觉较安全了，舒服了，自然地我撕下了那保护层，把自己纳入金宝社会的习俗。。

慢慢地，一步一步，渐渐地开始启发了观察周围事物的念头~ 尤其是当一人独自享用午晚餐~

独乐乐也是种享受~

听起来感觉我有点阴？危险？恐怖？可怕？

不，是生理学，我爱观察周围事物，就因为这样我容易陷入自己的观察与想象界里~　自我陶醉～

尝试了解“人性”，很有趣的 ^^

＊纯粹是种兴趣，没什目的。

翻一翻，看到此句：

“有些人谈恋爱五年十年，以为总会结婚。可惜恋爱时间越长，结婚可能性就越小。因为恋爱时间短，男人对你的需求越强烈，越想把你绑身边结婚。而超过五年的恋爱同居，对男人而言，结婚能得到的都得到了，还不如去尝试新鲜女人。所以，超过三年的恋爱，不结婚就分手。男人拖得起，你拖不起。”

你们感觉这小段词句～～如何？

人性

思嘉｜2月2012

Escape! Failed!

2012-02-02T21:01:00.002+08:00

Choose to escape from accepting the reality, the fact,
Remain silent is what cause the problem to be unsolved forever~
You, have no choice to complaint that your life is worst than others!
You have to bear the consequences!

Escaping

TanSC | Feb 2012

话不多说 , 这类似我！

2012-02-01T04:11:00.000+08:00

【给所有蝎子还有不懂蝎子的你】

如果天蝎沉默了，那么他的心一定是在滴血一样的痛，那是因为他最在乎的人或事让他失望了，或许这种失望是因为天蝎的敏感而胡乱猜想的结果。

但是，蝎蝎就是这样，不管是事实还是自己的想像.失望的心情是一样的，而沉默是天蝎唯一的选择。敏感的天蝎总在为难着自己。

如果你觉得天蝎礼貌，优秀，有修养，你好，你们是泛泛之交；

如果你觉得天蝎可爱又幽默，搞笑又谦让，嗨，你们是熟人；

如果你觉得天蝎霸道专横，脾气坏又骄傲，恭喜你，你们是很好的朋友；

如果你觉得看着天蝎时觉得拿ta完全没办法，悄悄告诉你，TA在爱你。

【天蝎座的秘密】

1、能不骂人，就不骂！一旦骂，就往死里骂；

2、骗我可以，但不要被我知道；

3、我可以容忍，但别超过我的底线；

4、我可以装傻，但别以为我真傻；

5、不喜欢就是不喜欢，说啥也没用；

6、任何的真话，我都能接受；

7、对我真心的，我会双倍回报；

8、对于装X者，不留脸面。

【天蝎，很累的】

天蝎座总是脸上微笑着、无所谓着、强势着，但是心里却一直流着泪；

天蝎座总是对陌生人冷冷的，但是熟悉了就嘻嘻哈哈；

天蝎座总是表现得很坚强，其实很软弱；

天蝎座总是说自己不孤单，其实很寂寞；

天蝎座总是被人误解，却又不愿解释。天蝎座，很累的……

在朋友面前，天蝎总是快乐的笑得那么自然。

天蝎座犯起迷糊来会让人想扶额默叹，可是在连你都看不透彻的事情上，TA却能一眼看透；

谁敢说天蝎座不细心，只是在TA认为可以不拘小节的事情上TA才会允许自己犯迷糊；

天蝎座很会隐藏秘密，TA不想让人知道的事，别人永远不会知道。

Simply for Sharing

2012-01-13T16:31:00.000+08:00

Appreciate your loves one!

Sharing

TanSCia | 13 Jan 2012

Survival in Career world

2012-01-11T19:27:00.000+08:00

watch out this!

you will definitely telling yourself that you're just as tiny as a dust or nothing in front of them.

Although we know many languages in Malaysia, but they know even more!
some more is kind of international languages and self improve by earn extra knowledge! This is AWESOME~~
just for their survival! to survive more longer in their career path way!

wondering~~ as I am now only in the year of early of 20th, how have I do for my future??
no doubt, i believed that most of us are still planning on how to make our teenage life more interesting and memorable by enjoying the sweetness moments rather than bitter ones! especially, we students~ =)
What a huge different thinking between us and them...

Since this kind of culture has adopt for years, soon, they will be the top country leader in the world..

Improvement!

TanSCia | Jan 2012

尊重不同点

2012-01-11T12:59:00.004+08:00

你们可否赞同此说法？

“爱情不是寻找共同点，而是学会尊重不同点。。”

这句话点醒在爱情迷魂里的你们了吗？ =)

对，我们常渴望寻找属于自己的理想对象，
生活习惯啦、性格啦、兴趣啦、个人成绩啦、等等等等。。。

没有一个人是完美的。。
这句，大家都懂。。
可否大家曾想过去接受对方的不同点？
别再霸道了。。拒绝去接受那不同点不但没把事情解决，还把事情恶化了。。^ ^

不是所有人都能知道时光的涵义，不是所有的人都懂得珍惜；
这世间并没有分离与衰老的命运，只有肯爱与不肯去爱的心。

这一路在我观察自己的行为里，听取老师给予的一句话，
在于一件事你做到或做不到，只有你的心！
只有你肯与不肯的心。。。^ ^
因为是你那颗心在操作着你的行动，脑子却往往无意中被忽略了。
不是你不能，是你选择不要~ 当然尝试就是初步的开始，觉得辛苦？-是心理在捣乱你的行动。
万事起头难嘛！
人人常因为心里一时的贪婪，“想要”，“渴望”而让决定变得不理智。
所以常常劝取自己说：Don't let emotion (heart) to guide your decision! - Mr. Darren Tan

坦诚

思嘉 | 正月2012年

Last Hour for 2011

2012-01-04T16:32:00.001+08:00

modeling with mom! haha!

of course is me the one who invite her!!! XDD

~.~"

neway, Thanks for 38-ing with me ^^

Korean style skirt~

*wink! ^^

fail to post XDD

ahaa! take one! ^^

amboii! pattern banyak niii~~ >.<

come again~

LOL!! XDD

Know what, my mom ask me to join modeling, due to my Longggg leg length~~ LOL

Self- Modeling

TanSCia | January 2012

Countdown for 2011

2012-01-04T15:39:00.000+08:00

Finally, I able to take some of my precious time to update this ^.^
The day after I went to Pulau Ketam, I've decided to visit my dearest Daddy and Bros who ady staying at KL area for a period of time, but now only I could made this chance to gather with them..
I'm bad i know.. XDD

So then, I met up with my Bros first before we had our dinner with Dad at Sakae Sushi!
Wow! I do not realize my dad willing to get his meal at Japanese restaurant too! Haha! He could prefer more on Chinese kind of food normally~ What a different I found on my dad these days! =D

Next Show!!

More expression! more expression please~~ =D

Good take!! ^^

Haiyaa~

Elder bro masih so serious when taking photo~

>.<

opps! anak siape tuu~ ^^

Bro was trying his photography skills~ XDD

Happy New Year everyone!

Thanks bros for spending your time to gather with me! m^.^m

The END!!

KL, M'sia

TanSCia | Jan 2012

献给你 · 谢谢你

2011-12-18T08:57:00.002+08:00

会不会有一天四季全变成夏天
是不是这样你才会相信有永远
看你靠着我的肩刚刚睡着的侧脸
爱仍不断在我心里蔓延

爱上你第一个夏天你就问我爱会不会变
如果你想要去冒险我会不会给你一片天
你说爱情也许没有想像的永远
才会有人忙着说再见

爱上你第一个夏天我就想给你整个世界
想带你一起去冒险想跟你一起接受考验
我的爱情并没有你想像的善变
只是全都放在心里面

你不需要再跟别人去争奇斗艳
在我心里你永远是最美的夏天
不管季节怎麽变我都会在你身边
爱你听你把你给宠上天

爱上你第一个夏天你就问我爱会不会变
如果你想要去冒险我会不会给你一片天
你说爱情也许没有想像的永远
才会有人忙着说再见

爱上你第一个夏天我就想给你整个世界
想带你一起去冒险想跟你一起接受考验
也许爱情比你想像中的还要远
只要你愿意在我身边

爱上你第一个夏天我就想给你整个世界
想带你一起去冒险想跟你一起接受考验
也许爱情比你想像中的还要远
只要你愿意在我身边
我会陪你一直到永远

爱夏·胡夏

思嘉 · 12月2011年

Morning!!

2011-12-13T09:53:00.001+08:00

What an awesome morning i wish for myself today!

It does really awesome~

Know what??

Have a short meditation after awake,

daily praying as usual,

with a relax mind and soul.

m^.^m

see this??

LOL~

LMAO~

XDD

Awesome Morning^^

TanSCia | Dec'11

生命中最远的旅行

2011-12-09T11:07:00.001+08:00

最远的旅行，

是从自己的身体到自己的心，

是从一个人的心到另一个人的心。

我不等待。。。

我找到感觉对的人，就决定了。

我不喜欢左顾右盼，

时间有限，

我想用有限的时间跟一个人过更好的生活，

而不是用我的生命，

去找另一个更好的人。

留在我身边的，

就是最好的！

我 · 惜福

生活

思嘉| 122011

Shunka | Vegas @ Kampar

2011-12-09T10:42:00.001+08:00

An impromptu outing meal-taken with housemates....

The Environment in

Shunka Japanese & Fusion Food

Cheese Tamago Yaki - taste nice!!! ^.^

guys, should get a try on it.. =D

Henry with his delicious ordered-foods

The food price still in our budget.

!!!! Kimuchi Cyahan

(Kimuchi Fried Rice)

Light spicy + little sour taste

What's going on??

Lemon Tea =

Slice of Lemon + Lipton Tea

Lolx!! >.<"

The main decoration theme in Vegas Restaurant!

wow!!

wow!!wow!!

wow!!wow!!wow!!

wow!!wow!!wow!!wow!!

wow!!

wow!!wow!!

wow!!wow!!wow!!

wow!!wow!!wow!!wow!!

wow!!wow!!

wow!!

"~.~"

Mini Gathering

TanSCia | Dec'2011

自信心的奇迹

2011-12-05T15:11:00.001+08:00

自拍也是建立自信心的根源。。

活出自我！！<3

学会欣赏自己，他人才会欣赏你！

创出自己所要的生活，建造充实的回忆，

一点一点地添上人生生涯的色彩。。

武出一道七彩彩虹！

就在脆弱的时候，

学会微笑！！

就在哭过以后，

学会了坚强。。

自备吗？自责吗？

抬起头，望望周围，看看世界。。

里头还有很多学识等你去挖掘!!

目前人生留的第一次长发，

不再新鲜，

微笑，始终使人容光焕发！

打扮，只看见你焕然一新的美貌！

Gesture, posture 还是要素！

为了什么，

把长发给剪短了。。

为了什么，

微笑不再灿烂了。。

为了什么，

脑子不再灵活了。。

为了什么，

脾气不再暴躁了。。

为了什么，

性格不再一样了。。

为了什么，

站在原地不再徘徊。。

只为了，充实自己的人生！

（自信心）

因此，

不再为了什么而烦恼什么。。

不再为了什么而顾虑什么。。

不再为了什么而厌恶什么。。

走过的路，走过的时间，走过的机会，

不许回头，

勇往直前！！

自信心的奇迹

思嘉 | 12月2011年

Endless Love - I-I-I-I

2011-12-03T11:26:00.001+08:00

My love,
There's only you in my life
The only thing that's bright

My first love,
You're every breath that I take
You're every step I make

And I
(I-I-I-I-I)
I want to share
All my love with you
No one else will do...

And your eyes
Your eyes, your eyes
They tell me how much you care
Ooh yes, you will always be
My endless love

Two hearts,
Two hearts that beat as one
Our lives have just begun

Forever
(Ohhhhhh)
I'll hold you close in my arms
I can't resist your charms

And love
Oh, love
I'll be a fool
For you,
I'm sure
You know I don't mind
Oh, you know I don't mind

'Cause you,
You mean the world to me
Oh
I know
I know
I've found in you
My endless love

Oooh-woow
Boom, boom
Boom, boom, boom, boom, booom
Boom, boom, boom, boom, boom

Oooh, and love
Oh, love
I'll be that fool
For you,
I'm sure
You know I don't mind
Oh you know-
I don't mind

And, YES
You'll be the only one
'Cause NO one can deny
This love I have inside
And I'll give it all to you
My love
My love, my love
My endless love

En Tau Baaaaaa

2011-12-03T11:07:00.001+08:00

Lengzai Model

m^.^m

Santiago G. Montero

Hamburg, Germany

XDD LengZai Model

TanSCia | December 2011

The Forgotten

2011-12-01T11:14:00.001+08:00

I believe

Most of us could only ~~REMEMBER~~ the days which brings

meaningful and memorable enough for our own life.

Is this statement true??

Think it off~

Why I said so?

Guys, could you still remember today is............................

There are still a group of the citizens around the world are still waiting for us to lend our helping hand towards them.

Could you help over them when they need our help??

To make it simple....

Think it in another way round, how if you were them?

Are you choose to giving up your life?

waiting for other's helping hand at the corner??

So, how's the statement at the beginning of this post??

True? or False?

Your heart,

your mind,

Answer it.

World Aids Day 2011

TanSC | December 2011

semester by semester

2011-11-30T13:55:00.001+08:00

This would be my timetable for next semester

for TEMPORARY

^.^

Timetable 2012

TanSC | 30112011

Wushu Intervarsity Championship 2011

2011-11-28T11:02:00.001+08:00

WUSHU INTERVARSITY CHAMPIONSHIP 2011

USM KAMPUS KESIHATAN,

KUALA KERIAN,

KELANTAN

25 - 26 NOVEMBER 2011

24th November 2011, Thursday

Departing from Kampar to Kelantan - 8 hours journey

once arrived Kota Bahru!!

We are~~~~~~~~~

Malaysian!! LOLx

While in Lobby - Tune Hotel, Kota Bahru

With Kedah ShaoLim team!

Thanks for the chance to gather again!

Miss the past! ^^

UTAR wushu participants ^^

We not only representative of UTAR,

we are

Muacks Muacks University (MMU) as well ^^

MMU, KTAR, UTAR

Our Winner!!

Congratulations! ^.^

Wushu Intervarsity

TanSC | November 2011

Once Upon A Time~~~

2011-11-27T11:54:00.001+08:00

Once upon a time........
I was 17 years old, actively join wushu with my jimuiss... Ming Li & Gweik Ngoh...
They are both my seniors.. ^^
Thanks them for giving me such a wonderful memory and friendship!! <3 Love yay!! ^^

Here is the only video we performed at Anugerah Cemerlang Day.. ^.^v
Although not that fantastic or "wow!" feel.. but we could still appreciate and satisfy with our performance..
Could still remember, we only used up 3 weeks to arranged the workout and practices ourselves..! wooiiseh~ lol ^^

Wushu

TanSC | Nov 2011

Heartfelt

2011-11-23T09:35:00.001+08:00

Heart, tired

Breath, exhausted

Sight, mystery

Auditory, quiet, silent

Mind, on function all the time.

I, alone

Stay away!

Somehow, did something stupidly

is kind of joy too!!

Heartfelt

TanSCia. November 2011

Passionate love

2011-11-23T09:13:00.001+08:00

Cheers!!

2011-11-19T08:23:00.001+08:00

You are beautiful, why would you ever think otherwise?
Because some guy made you feel ugly?
Because you see other girls with the clothes, the makeup, the hair and "perfect" smile?
Don't let that fool you, everyone has at least one insecurity.
The best way to deal with it is by putting it aside, and learning to love yourself every single day because there IS someone out there who loves you AND your flaws. <3

___________________________________________________________________________________

Cheers!!

Sometimes........

Being 3838 will make you feel good too!

So........

Let's stay 38!!

m^.^m

La~la~la~~

TanSCia | Nov'11

Bridal veil

2011-11-19T08:11:00.001+08:00

The most beautiful moment of lady ever in lady's life!!

Don't you guys Agree??

^_^v

She looks Gorgeous!

Elegant look!!

Classical lady~ nice!! ^^

Lace high heels!!

woots!! O.o

Bridal Veil

TanSCia | November 2011

惜 · 福

2011-11-18T11:59:00.001+08:00

我没有漂亮到让你带出去很有面子，
但我会努力跟你朋友打好关系；
我不富有，但我不会什么都要你花钱；
我不勤奋，但我肯为你亲手煮一餐饭；
我害羞，但我敢大声说我珍惜你；
我有前度，但我不会想着以前，能跟你一起我爱的是你；
我不完美，但我会用自己的方式令你幸福。
如果你遇到这样的一个我，记得珍惜好吗？

惜。福

思嘉|11月

We are born to be creative

2011-11-13T19:13:00.001+08:00

Simply for sharing ^^

Guys, do enjoy video clips made by UTAR Public Relation(PR) Students..
"We are born to be creative!" Now only i realize the meaning behind it..
Appreciated their hard work and heart work as they use their creativity to work this out.. ^^

Original version

Here in My Home

By: Malaysian Artistes for Unity

PR's Students Work

TanSc | November 2011

Thanks for the memories

2011-11-13T09:43:00.001+08:00

Enjoy!

[Intro]
I'm gonna make it bend and break
(It sent you to me without wait)
Say a prayer, but let the good times roll
In case God doesn't show...
(Let the good times roll)
(Let the good times roll)

[Verse 1]
And I want these words to make things right
But it's the wrongs that make the words come to life,
"Who does he think he is?"
If that's the worst you got
Better put your fingers back to the keys

[Chorus]
One night and one more time
Thanks for the memories
Even though they weren't so great;
"He tastes like you, only sweeter"!
One night, yeah, and one more time
Thanks for the memories, thanks for the memories;
"See, he tastes like you only sweeter"!
Oh Oh Oh Oh Oh

[Verse 2]
Been looking forward to the future
But my eyesight is going bad
And this crystal ball
It's always cloudy except for
(Except for)
When you look into the past
(Look into the past)
One night stand...
(One night stand, oh)
[ Lyrics from: http://www.lyricsmode.com/lyrics/f/fall_out_boy/thanks_for_the_memories.html ]
[Chorus]
One night and one more time
Thanks for the memories
Even though they weren't so great;
"He tastes like you only sweeter"!
One night, yeah, and one more time
Thanks for the memories, thanks for the memories;
"See, he tastes like you only sweeter"!
Oh Oh Oh Oh Oh

[Interlude]
They say
I only think in the form of crunching numbers
In hotel rooms collecting page-six lovers
Get me out of my mind
And get you out of those clothes
I'm a liner away
From getting you into the mood
Whoa

[Chorus]
One night and one more time
Thanks for the memories
Even though they weren't so great;
"He tastes like you but sweeter"!
One night, yeah, and one more time
Thanks for the memories, thanks for the memories;
"See, he tastes like you only sweeter"!

[Chorus]
One night and one more time (One more night, one more time)
Thanks for the memories
Even though they weren't so great;
"He tastes like you but sweeter"!
One night, yeah, and one more time (One more night, one more time)
Thanks for the memories, thanks for the memories; (For the memories)
"See, he tastes like you only sweeter"!

More lyrics: http://www.lyricsmode.com/lyrics/f/fall_out_boy/#share

| The Secret |

2011-11-12T07:58:00.001+08:00

As life goes on, I'm now live for 20 years +
Do I still remember what have i gone through over my life?
Blessedness? Happiness? Sadness? Intense and stimulative? Joyful? Distraught?
Neway, no matter how's the life being puzzle-up time goes by time, we should be cherish, appreciate what have we learnt from the past lesson.
As YJ taught me, " the past of you, is not you anymore! the moment right now, is no more yourself!"
Know WHY?? No WHY!!!

Ideally, I will ask something so called "funny" to myself when I'm not feeling well at the right time.
(1) "What have I do just now? Did I think for the consequences before making any decision?" - I'm some kind of impulsive style.. That's why sometime i were in no mood with the decision i've been made.. Urhh!!
(2) "Did I learnt something today??"
(3) "Did I gain any knowledge which i experienced myself?"
(4) "With sincere, am I doing something silly again?"

Just a simple way of self-asking, don't need much time to ans it.. you know the answer.
Remember!! You are the MASTER of your life!!!

Here's the link to reach "The Secret" Official Website.. ^.^v

"The Secret" Daily Teaching Note

"Hope it will benefits in your life", he said.

It inspire my life. The smell of "emo" started walk-out from my life...^.^

I received this book some day from my Uni friend...

Sincerely, thanks for your gift! =)

Appreciated.

Cordially yours,

The Secret

TanSC | November 2011

Daring to take chances

2011-11-12T07:48:00.001+08:00

Chances. Grab every chances when you found it is a chance for you to grab on.
Nothing to feel regret if you have left out.
Don't feel depress or unfortunate if you don't take it serious in the first place.
There is something, somewhere, someone will make you appreciate when you found it is valuable for you.

Please Cherish Time;
Cherish Every Moment Now.

Cherish Time

TanSC. November 2011

2011-11-07T16:38:00.004+08:00

Wow! Wow! WOW!!

It comes to the last day of 3rd week! Slow yet soon we've enter into 4th week of this semester, ideally, it's the peak time for students to rush for tones and load of work, which deal with assignments and mid term test!! *of course, there's still has others have heavier, tougher work as compare to us..^^

So, most of my friends have went back hometown due to weekends + holiday for Hari Raya Haji till 忙day.XDD Yet, it's lucky that my BE's groupmate were still "alive" in Kampar. =p

We combined our final report at Secret Recipe, Nat wish to have tea time together as well. Guess what?? This is my first time seated at here.. LOL~

Editing our report..... with little netbook..

Overview and "supervise" the Plagiarism report... XDD

Who's the one cover his/her face with menu's booklet..................

She's not a girl;
He's shy guy seated aside me- DingYao

ordered by, Natalie..^.^

Me and Nat's dinner for Saturday night. ^.^v

ps: spaghetti and sauce from little bro, Thanks bro!!

Nat was busy preparing the spagh

It's my turn to prepare the sauce.. : p

Nat do still help me out to "kacau kacau"...

Tadaaa!!

Finally!! Not a fail result~ taste were pretty nice!!! ^.^v

Prepared by : Natalie, home-made curry MiiSua

ps: Curry sauce -made by her mom

Sam-8 Moment!!!!!!! *_*

Weekends. October'2011

TanSCia.

那些年，我们一起追的女孩

2011-11-04T17:07:00.003+08:00

《那些年》- 胡夏

作词：九把刀

作曲：木村充利

又回到最初的起点
记忆中你青涩的脸
我们终於来到了这一天
桌垫下的老照片无数回忆连结
今天男孩要赴女孩最后的约

又回到最初的起点
呆呆地站在镜子前
笨拙系上红色领带的结
将头发梳成大人模样
穿上一身帅气西装
等会儿见你一定比想像美

好想再回到那些年的时光
回到教室座位前后
故意讨你温柔的吗
黑板上排列组合你舍得解开吗
谁与谁坐他又爱著她

那些年错过的大雨
那些年错过的爱情
好想拥抱你拥抱错过的勇气
曾经想征服全世界
到最后回首才发现
这世界滴滴点点全部都是你

那些年错过的大雨
那些年错过的爱情
好想告诉你告诉你我没有忘记
那天晚上满天星星
平行时空下的约定
再一次相遇我会紧紧抱著你
紧紧抱著你又回到最初的起点
呆呆地站在镜子前
笨拙系上红色领带的结
将头发梳成大人模样
穿上一身帅气西装
等会儿见你一定比想像美

好想再回到那些年的时光
回到教室座位前后
故意讨你温柔的吗
黑板上排列组合你舍得解开吗
谁与谁坐他又爱著她

那些年错过的大雨
那些年错过的爱情
好想拥抱你拥抱错过的勇气
曾经想征服全世界
到最后回首才发现
这世界滴滴点点全部都是你

那些年错过的大雨
那些年错过的爱情
好想告诉你告诉你我没有忘记
那天晚上满天星星
平行时空下的约定
再一次相遇我会紧紧抱著你
紧紧抱著你

那些年错过的大雨
那些年错过的爱情
好想告诉你告诉你我没有忘记
曾经想征服全世界
到最后回首才发现
这世界滴滴点点全部都是你

那些年错过的大雨
那些年错过的爱情
好想告诉你告诉你我没有忘记
那天晚上满天星星
平行时空下的约定
再一次相遇我会紧紧抱著你
紧紧抱著你

给自己点时间自修～

2011-10-28T16:40:00.006+08:00

Do not pray for easy lives, pray to be stronger.

找个女孩做老婆,个子不用太高挑,可有点小胖,健康就好。
找个女孩做老婆,不用太会家务,能洗衣叠被,会做西红柿炒鸡蛋就行。
找个女孩做老婆,不要多聪慧,可以有点小笨,有自己判断力,少干缺心眼事。
找个女孩做老婆,不用多有能力,对你一直有信心,会欣赏你能力,哪怕她挣钱比你多也会给你足够的自尊。

慢慢才知道，太在乎别人了往往会伤害自己；
慢慢才知道，对自己好的人会随着时间的流逝越来越少；
慢慢才知道，很多东西是可遇而不可求的，很多东西只能拥有一次；
慢慢才知道，真心对一个人好不一定有回报，而你忽略的人往往可能是最重视你的；
慢慢才知道，原来现实如此的无奈；慢慢才知道，自己长大了。

哭的时候没人哄，我学会了坚强；
怕的时候没人陪，我学会了勇敢；
烦的时候没人问，我学会了承受；
累的时候没人可以依靠，我学会了自立。
一个人，如果不坚强，软弱给谁看。

如果不坚强，软弱给谁看！

【学会，承受！】
不要为了任何人任何事折磨自己。
比如不吃饭，哭泣，自闭，抑郁，这些都是傻瓜做的事。
学会承受痛苦，有些话适合烂在心里，有些痛苦，适合无声无息的忘记。
当经历过，你长大了，自己知道就好。
很多改变，不需要你说，别人会看得到。

【做人的底线】
（1）不做第三者，即使再喜欢。
（2）骗我可以，如果被我知道超过两次，请你有多远滚多远。
（3）如果你拿我不当回事，我会以同样的方式对你。
（4）我可以装傻，但别以为我真傻。
（5）我可以容忍，但别超过我的底线。
（6）我不是没脾气，只是不轻易发脾气。
（7）任何的真话，我都能接受。

那么，就勇敢面对现实吧。现实是一切都画上了句点，然后你开始大步朝前。

Zen. Cia

TanSC. October'2011

Girlss "should" know about GUYS!!

2011-10-26T14:02:00.000+08:00

Wonderful post!!

It's long enough.. but it's worth for you to read it.. enjoy!! ^.^v

Guys aren’t psychic, mind telling them what you mean?
Guys don’t like to be used as pawns in trying to make your friends jealous.
Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. Better watch out girls.
The biggest turn off for guys is to see girls smoking.
The biggest turn on for guys are the girls who workout.
Girls who don’t want to listen to the truth shouldn’t be asking any questions.
Ending a heated conversation with “Fine” or “Whatever” isn’t considered acceptable.
If you want sex, just ask.
Don’t expect guys to say as many sweet things as they do in the movies. It takes 10 couples to come up with one sweet thing that they put up in the movies.
Only models are able to carry off most of the stuff you see in fashion magazines.
A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.
A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.
Guys need to be reassured often that they’re still loved.
Guys don’t care about how gorgeous you are, it’s goodbye, adios, and sayonara if you’re being a bitch.
All guys are kinky and willing to try anything that you may enjoy, just let them know.
Guys are more emotional than you think. If they loved you at one point, it’ll take them a lot longer than you think to let you go, and it hurts every second that they try.
A guy would do just about anything to get you to notice him.
Guys do not look into minute detailing. So, if you gave up a quarter of an inch from your 20 inches long hair, don’t expect your guy to know that instantly.
Guys like porn!
Anything said six months ago is inadmissible in an argument. All comments become null and void after seven days.
“The game is on” will be considered an acceptable excuse to postpone any serious conversations.
Cooking makes a girl all the more attractive.
You can’t get mad if your guy refuses to hook up your “ugly friend” with one of his good-looking friends.
Nothing you will ever do will entitle you to operate the remote control, unless operating means handing it to him.
The only thing left to be said after sex is “goodnight.”
Video games have helped men develop awesome finger skills that only encourage them to play more often.
Critiquing a man’s driving is outright unacceptable.
Guys’ night outs are sacred events. If you ask any question about it, you’ll be castigated.
Believe it or not, 99.5% of the time men honestly don’t mean to hurt you.
Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest.
If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.
Don’t hold it against your guy if he starts to cry after a good sports movie, and was laughing outrageously last night when the two of you were watching an emotional drama saga.
Leaving a message like “You know what?! Mmm… Never mind…” would make a guy hanging on to that thought all day long and reach a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. Don’t ever do that!
A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
Guys love you more than you love them.
No matter how much guys talk about hotness or sex appeal, personality is key.
When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.
If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn’t happen that often, so when it does, you know something’s up.
A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.
You like when your guy calls and asks you out for dinner and pays for you, right? Well yeah, guys like it once in a while too.
It’s natural for a guy’s eyes to wander.
It’s not that guys don’t want to make their girlfriends happy; it’s just that sometimes, they don’t know how.
A guy would give his right arm to be able to read a girl’s mind for a day.
Not all guys are jerks. Just because one is a jackass doesn’t mean he represents all of them.
When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he isn’t doing it all for sex. It means he likes you more than you can imagine.
Even if you dumped a guy months ago and he loved you, he probably still does and if he had one wish it would be to have you back in his life.
Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.
A guy would waste his time over video games and football, the way a girl would do over novels and make-ups.

Web Articles.Google.com

TanSC.October 2011

Fixed up n-th piece of LIFE puzzle

2011-10-26T09:45:00.000+08:00

224th October 2011, Saturday

No doubt, it's the convocation day for graduates of TARC (Perak Campus)!!
Aha!! know u guys have some curiosity towards this post! ^^ Wondering i'm attending whose convocation over here right? =p
There....there.....the one arr... the one who have to wear the what so called...... academic dress? uh? is it? not sure that is so call academic dress.. >.<"
alright~ back to the topic... ^^ It's my dear's sister graduation day!

<-- Tadaaa!! Here she is! ^^

Kam's Family~ m^o^m hoii~! apa lu mau buat??

The ~~girlssssss~~~~ opps! ladies? women??

v *.* v

XDD 轻飘神功！

Simply juz being 3838 with me.. lol!!

Learn it from Indian movie,

appear in a sudden behind a tree.... x , x"

GUESS.. guess how old are we!?? XDD

a) same ages

b) i'm elder than her 1 or 2 years

c) i'm younger than her 1 or 2 years

d) Non of all above!

=X!!!!!!!!

Simply just love this photo!

The ladies~ ^.^

awww~!! How sweet~

simply feeling so warm.. ^^

Prof. of the Queen!

Hahahaha! that's all for it.. hope you guys enjoy it!
to be continue with other interesting Convocation Days in future!!
Stay tuned!!! ^.^
Anyhow, we, as their family members, friends, relatives, or an "outsiders", do wish to sent our sincere regards and congratulate to everyone of them, who has finally! successfully! contentedly! fulfill their convo wish!!!
wohooo~~ ^^

All The Best In Your Future Undertaking, Lynn!!

[Kampar-Teh] yoo!! ^^

Convocation Day.2011

TanSC.October.2011

转折的机会~

2011-10-17T22:02:00.001+08:00

2天、3天，慢慢开始看到事情的转变，早前所感受到的都感觉不妙了~
我已不再感受到以往的自信~
承受的痛苦我想与你分享，可是~ 我说不出口。。
你的一句话，我明白了。。真的明白了。。
不再听到任何安慰，任何鼓励，
这一刻，我正站在分叉路上，无动于衷，
只允许默默地接受一切，一切~~
面对一切，一切~~！！
我似乎企图开始去尝试~
再正式感受那股酸辣滋味！心淌着血的滋味！！！
"Dare to FAIL!!!"
我愿接受这挑战！斗！！

你或许也在告诉自己尝试再给我机会吧~

不料，此刻脑海中滑过的是 “女人，真的lebih~"

若我，真的让你没得自豪，

或没面子，

别逃避，

请坦白。

我害怕失败~~

Family Trip'11

2011-10-16T11:36:00.002+08:00

just a simple and short post.

It has been such a long long time didn't gather with family although we just only has 5 members!

what a sad case for me. =(

well~ Bros, hope next time we have a better time matching to go for our own family reunion except CNY!! alright?! XDD

Due to little bro's exam period, so he did not join our Penang 2D1N family trip, well, we are still going for the trip although without you! haha.. don't envy yay! i believe that we have the chance again!! ^.^v

Yo! HanWei in the car;

Yo! SzeCia in the car;

Yo!yo! we're in the car!! LOL

we choose to overnight at budget hotel - Panaroma Hotel, Penang.

The setting and design were some kind like old bungalow.

Dad & me, the only 1 pic? maybe?

Bro & me, not the only 1 pic, haha!!

no doubt, this pic i looks sweet! XDD

...: Mom & me :...

while we're resting at hotel's living room!

Take N-times! ^^

Ahaa! this is my current fb's pp! haha..

specially credits to my bro larh! ^^ thanks, bro!

ehee!! Magic Kitchen @ 1st Avenue shopping centre, Penang!

*not a restaurant, it's the food court of 1st Avenue named Magic Kitchen.

don't get cheated by the outlook. LOL

Family Trip 2011

TanSC. 0607102011.

Pemakaian Coli Yang Sesuai

2011-10-10T13:34:00.004+08:00

Kesan dari memakai coli yang tidak sesuai:
- Coli terangkat di bahagian belakang.
- Tanda merah dan kesan tali ketat.
- Payudara terkeluar dari coli atau terbonjol sedikit di ketiak.

Jika anda sering mengalami kesan berikut, ikuti langkah-langkah seterusnya untuk membantu anda mendapatkan saiz coli yang sesuai:
Langkah 1

1. Pakai coli semasa mengukur sambil berdiri.
2. Ukur di sekeliling bawah payudara. Jika anda mendapat nombor genap [even number], tambah 4 inci. Jika anda mendapat nombor ganjil [odd number], tambah 5 inci.Sebagai contoh:
          Jika ukuran anda adalah               31"
          Tambah                                   +    5"
          Saiz coli anda ialah                       36"

Langkah 2

Ukur di sekeliling bahagian terpadat payudara. Bandingkan nombor ini dengan saiz coli anda. Jika nombornya sama, bermakna saiz cup anda adalah A. Jika perbezaannya 1", bermakna saiz cup anda adalah B dan seterusnya.

Saiz Coli   + 0" --> Cup A
Saiz Coli   + 1" --> Cup B
Saiz Coli   + 2" --> Cup C
Saiz Coli   + 3" --> Cup D
Saiz Coli   + 4" --> Cup E

Bagaimana Mencuci Pakaian Peribadi Supaya Tahan Lama:
1. Cucian mesin dengan putaran ringan. Guna "uncang pakaian dalam".
2. Cuci menggunakan air sejuk dan sabun pencuci lembut.
3. Cucian tangan untuk pakaian yang 100% berenda.
4. Jangan perah dan seterika pakaian peribadi.
5. Jangan merendam lebih daripada 15 minit.
6. Cuci warna yang gelap erasingan.
7. Jangan gunakan bahan pemutih.
8. Jemur di tempat teduh dan berangin.

Breast Measurement.

TanSC. Oct'11

Well-recognize place

2011-10-02T13:29:00.000+08:00

Well-recognize Hometown- Alor Star,KEDAH!!

After having short break at Pahang, i've Safely arrived Astar after 6 hours bus journey!! ^.^ Guess what, thanks god that i'm in safe all the way!
yeeharr! still have 2 weeks long for me to stay away from papers and books, what am i still waiting for??!
plan for some activities!!!
of course i will fully utilize my time with plans as good as possible.. XDD
- shopping shopping
- meeting up with old friends
- improve some skills [woots! ^^]
- medical check-up
- update myself with latest news (gosh~ have no idea about world news after stay at kampar although for only 1 sem, sad case!)
- and for sure, EXERCISES !!! [gonna have a slim for my 20th!! wee~]

- watching movies, drama.. the only entertainment for indoor activities. poor me~ XD
Certain moment, i was still wondering how's others enjoy their sem break.Could they feel bored? or Fun with Break?? Share with me if you guys have any interesting feelings could share with.. ^o^ i'll always be there!!=p

Home@Astar

TanSC.Sept'11

640km apart from my town- Guess where am i??

2011-09-25T15:52:00.000+08:00

Hey, guys! Long time no see!!
I'm back to my wonderful blogger again.. miss it! ^p^
Who knows, I have just finish my final few days ago! oopps! only for the sem, not yet for the year! T^T
Still left 2 more years to go ahead.. @.@
In other words, I'm now just like a bird who just successfully fly out freely from it's bird case!! wohoo!! of course, not only me myself, all UTAR-ians as well! ^^
Happy Holidays, guys!! ^^

Yupe! no doubt, as teenagers nowadays, we'll find our way to plan some holiday activities with own purpose! =p
237km apart from my current study place, Kampar, Perak. Where am i know??
**Try to check out google map? LOL

Manchis, Bentong, Pahang!!!

^o^ A place where he born, he stay since he was still a little boy.. - Mr. Kam

anyway, still Thank YOU for bringing me here to have a short break! Appreciate so much! muah^^

Short break holiday!

TanSC. September '11.

CamerooooooooonnnNN Trip!!!

2011-08-22T16:11:00.005+08:00

Wow!!

It's fantastic & fabulous Group's Trip!!

Juz couldn't imagine that this trip only cost us RM50 per person!!

which include petrol, bbq stuffs, dinner, rental for apartment!! it's worth for us who wish to have budget travel~ ^.^

really "bang gii ko tua teh~" [hokkien] "便宜又值得"

Let's the photos tell you the story ^.^

20th August 2011, Saturday

1st night, BBQ night!

1st group of "hawkers"

Don't you all feel curious why they BBQ sambil holding the umbrella??

yay! no doubt, we BBQ under rain drops! ^^

where it's an outdoor area.

Here the 2nd group of "hawkers"

Although i just know them just for days? maybe hours??

But they are pretty nice person and the main point is they 4838!! XDDD

Sama satu bangsa with me! Ngam connection line!! Ngam topic!! pretty suii arr!!

hahahahahahahahaaa....

Neway, nice to meet you guys there!! ^.^v

The moment before we get to bed, MAFIA wars with poker cards makes our day end!!

It's my first time to play this kind of FUN wars!! ^.^ Sincerely, this game are so mysterious with kind of by letting us to investigate someone's movement which can betray oneself.. hiak! hiak! hiak!!

...: End of day 1 :...

The next day, 22nd August 2011

On the way to treasure food~ ^^

Sharon: "Hello, is SzeCia there??"

SzeCia: "Hello, Sharon! I'm here.."

Group' says: "Redundant-nyaa~!!!" =p

OUR 1st destination, BOH' Tea Plantation & Factory!!!

*the journey from Tanah Rata to BOH' Factory is pretty high & far.. It is located almost at the top of mountain.

*A warn for girls and guys who have motion sickness, you all may take a short nap all the way to avoid yourself stay in "blur" case.. ^^

From left- Jscy Soh, SweeMeng, Chim, Kam

Resting~

Relaxing~

Enjoying~^^

From Left - Sharon, Sam, SzeCia

Main Entrance - Toilet of BOH' factory

2nd Destination, Cactus Park

3rd destination, roadside rows of stalls - Pasar

Sam with GIANT white radish!

*it only cost RM4

Budget Travel. Degree Y2S1

TanSC | 22nd Aug 2011

我～相信！我自己

2011-08-19T22:24:00.003+08:00

能力有限不代表我没上进 ~

思嘉说：感谢有你陪伴，感谢有你给的信任~

感谢你在我生命中出现～

有缘相见，很高兴认识您～　＝)

虽然，我进度稍微慢～　

但，我还是相信我能创造奇迹！！

真的，给点我时间充实自己～给点我。。不多，一丝机会也好！

我相信我自己！！

我相信，机会是留给有努力过的人~

有努力过，就不会有后悔的遗憾～　

静思中～甜嘉酸～^^

2011-08-16T16:21:00.003+08:00

我相信

【9种让男人着迷的女人】

1、保持独立，有自己的荣誉；

2、不纠缠对方，给彼此各自的轨迹；

3、神秘莫测；

4、半糖主义，得不到的永远矜贵；

5、不会让他看见自己的狼狈相；

6、以自己的节奏行事，不受对方摆布；

7、有幽默感；

8、自信；

9、对某些事情的热情超过对他的需要。

男人. 女人

TanSC.Aug'2011

我们的20几岁~

2011-08-10T15:09:00.003+08:00

男人要永远感谢在他20多岁的时候曾经陪在他身边的女人。

因为20多岁的男人处在一生中的最低点，没钱，没事业；

而20多岁的女人却是她一生最灿烂的时候。

感谢.生命中有你.

TanSC.10th August'11

得到肯定，增加自信

2011-08-10T12:48:00.004+08:00

昨夜的事，深深让我感受到~ 他的不放心~~~

我想，他，也许在临睡前小心地担心，默默地自我安慰，静静地想着多个为什么，悄悄地看着未来的生活~~

再加上，此时，他还有重大任务在身还没完成。。他的时间、精神更需要好好地规划。。

可见，我这份担心给了他多了个包袱~

他，失落了~~ 我，一样失落了~~

他，当在需要得到对方的肯定之下，想要个能让他足以放心的答案，可是，这几回，我的表现，让他地失望了。。。**得到肯定，增加自信**

由此可见。。。。。。。。若到了绝望的地步真的无药可救了。。*悲~

至今，我还在行人中徘徊，慰问自己，我，是不是都不属于任何人，不适宜谈任何感情事，不是他人永远的完美对象~

很习惯性地每夜都会看回自己当天的表现，再从别人的角度上看我自己，只能感受到“嘉~ 你怎么还是那么的kid~ 有时，还很安慰地说：开心就好！”

说实在的，我并不希望看到我的他是被自己伤害的。。

成熟的思想？溜去哪儿了？？

人们会因环境而改变，会因好奇而学习~

在此，分享下我在网上看到一句赏词，

“找一个相守一生的人，未必要完美，甚至未必是至爱..

只要同路就好，可以结伴而行，不至一生寂寞，足够了..”

我爱你~ 希望今日以后你都过得美好，暂时，我不打扰你~

好好加油！！祝福你~

体会.感受.原谅

TanSC.9th August 2011

幸福的眼泪 | 分享区

2011-08-10T11:39:00.003+08:00

不多说，这篇故事~ 文章~ 会让你不想去相信，不想去接受。。

经历过的人将会明白作者的感受，谅解它所含有的意义~ =)

走得最急的，都是最美的风景..
伤得最深的，也总是那些最真的感情..

真正的爱情，不是一见钟情，而是日久生情..
真正的缘份，不是上天的安排，而是你的主动..
真正的自卑，不是你不优秀，而是你把她想得太优秀..
真正的关心，不是你认为好的就要求她改变，而是她的改变你是第一个发现的..
真正的矛盾，不是她不理解你，而是你不会宽容她..

我们一直觉得妥协一些、将就一些、容忍一些可以得到幸福。
但当你的底线放得越低，你得到的就是更低的那个结果！不是吗?

不要因为寂寞爱错人，更不要因为爱错人而寂寞一生..
尝试信任才能得到幸福..

缘分是本书，
翻的不经意会错过..
读得太认真会泪流..

女人会记得让她笑的男人，男人会记得让他哭的女人，
可是女人总是留在让她哭的男人身边..
男人却留在让他笑的女人身边..

多少人在说，
我会等你，等你回心转意的那一天；
我会等你，等你愿意和我在一起的那一天；
我会等你，等你离开那个人来到我身边的那一天；
我会等你，等你.. ..
然而人们可曾知道，世上的爱情，没有几份真的经得起等待..

这个世界上最残忍的一句话，不是对不起，也不是我恨你，
而是，我们再也回不去..
就是这样再简单不过的一句话，生生的将两个原本亲密的人隔为疏离。
没有经历过的人，永远都不会明白，那是怎样的一种切肤之痛。

最宝贵的东西不是你拥有的物质，而是陪伴在你身边的人。
不能强迫别人来爱自己，只能努力让自己成为值得爱的人，其余的事情则靠缘分。

爱总是会使我们有太多期许：
希望长久，希望不会分别，希望占有和实现。
而最终只是觉得有些许厌倦，不知道该往哪里去。
爱情就是这样，有些人会慢慢遗落在岁月的风尘里，
哭过，笑过，吵过，闹过，再恋恋不舍也都只是曾经..

世界上最动人的情话，不是“我爱你”，
而是在我需要的时候，你说“ I’ll be there ” ..

每一个不敢再爱的女人，一定很深的爱过..
看起来好象百毒不侵，其实早已百毒侵身..

女人好比梨，外甜内酸。
吃梨的人不知道梨的心是酸的，因为吃到最后就把心扔了，所以男人从来不懂女人的心。
男人就好比洋葱，想要看到男人的心就需要一层一层去剥！
但在剥的过程中你会不断流泪，剥到最后你才知道洋葱是没心的..

爱情里最忌讳的是：
两人都幻想着彼此的未来..
却也总惦记着对方的过去..

明明说着看开了，放下了，每次却总是不自觉的想起那个给与温暖的人。
每每又总是在微笑沉醉时看到了现实，想到了伤痛，然后，冷的感觉再也暖和不起来了。
如此反复，心，终于累了，现实就是这样。
我曾经醉过，却又最终醒来，我正在行走，却找不到方向。

我想给你幸福，却走不进你的世界。
我想用我的全世界来换取一张通往你的世界的入场券，
不过，那只不过是我的一厢情愿而已。
我的世界，你不在乎；你的世界，我被驱逐。
我真的喜欢你，闭上眼，以为我能忘记，但流下的眼泪，却没有骗到自己。

道歉并不总意味着你是错的，而对方是正确的。
有时它只是意味着相对自我而言，你更珍惜你们之间的关系。

有些伤痕，划在手上，愈合后就成了往事；
有些伤痕，划在心上，那怕划得很轻，也会留驻于心；
有些人，近在咫尺，却是一生无缘..

生命中，似乎总有一种承受不住的痛。
有些遗憾，注定了要背负一辈子；生命中，
总有一些精美的情感瓷器在我们身边跌碎，
然而那裂痕却留在了岁暮回首时的刹那..

一个人炫耀什么，说明内心缺少什么..
一个人越在意的地方，就是最令他自卑的地方..
有些人越越想得到的，就越是装作无所谓..
越怕失去的，就越是装作不在乎..
人越是得意的事情，越爱隐藏..
越是痛苦的事情，越爱小题大作..
憎恨某人，优点被看成伪装..
喜欢某人，缺点也变得美好..

有时候，同样的一件事情，
我们可以去安慰别人，却说服不了自己..

热恋时爱情，可以什么都不在乎。
只要你要，只要我有，因为我爱你，所以我愿意。
一旦感情平复了下来，心中就会出现接连不断的计较，为什么我付出的比你多，
为什么我什么都可以给你，你却要有所隐瞒，
然后冷战，争吵，分手，和好，冷战..
走得过的就是执子之手，走不过的就只能缅怀当初..

在爱情没开始以前，你永远想象不出会那样地爱一个人..
在爱情没结束以前，你永远想象不出那样的爱也会消失..
在爱情被忘却以前，你永远想象不出那样刻骨铭心的爱也会只留淡淡痕迹..
在爱情重新开始以前，你永远想象不出还能再一次找到那样的爱情..

有些人一直没机会见，等有机会见了，却又犹豫了。
有些事一直没机会做，等有机会了，却不想再做了。
有些话埋藏在心中好久，没机会说，等有机会说的时候，却说不出口了。
有些爱一直没机会爱，等有机会了，已经不爱了。
有些话有很多机会说的，却想着以后再说，要说的时候，却已经没机会了。

也许你没有貌，但你有才；
也许你没有才，但你温柔；
也许你没有温柔，但你..
也许你什么都没有，但是也许，他正爱着你的平凡..

时间会告诉你一切真相。
有些事情，要等到你渐渐清醒了，才明白它是个错误..
有些东西，要等到你真正放下了，才知道它的沉重..

能牵手的时候，请别肩并肩，
能拥抱的时候，请别手牵手。
能相爱的时候，请别说分开，
拥有了爱情，请别去碰暧昧。

男人对女人的伤害，不一定是他爱上了别人，
而是他在她有所期待的时候让她失望，在她脆弱的时候没有给她应有的安慰..

世界没有悲剧和喜剧之分，如果你能从悲剧中走出来，那就是喜剧..
如果你沉缅于喜剧之中，那它就是悲剧。
如果你只是等待，发生的事情只会是你变老了。
人生的意义不在于拿一手好牌，而在于打好一手坏牌。

如果彼此出现早一点，也许就不会和另一个人十指紧扣。
又或者相遇的再晚一点，晚到两个人在各自的爱情经历中慢慢地学会了包容与体谅，
善待和妥协，也许走到一起的时候，就不会那么轻易的放弃，任性地转身，放走了爱情。
但时间不会回头，爱情岂能“如果”？

人最软弱的地方，是舍不得。
舍不得一段不再精采的感情，舍不得一份虚荣，舍不得掌声。
我们永远以为最好的日子是会很长很长的，不必那么快离开。
就在我们心软和缺乏勇气的时候，最好的日子毫不留情地逝去了。

有时候，你等的不是事情，机会，或是谁，你等的是时间。
等时间，让自己忘记，等时间，让自己改变，
放弃便是得到，forget it = for get it ..

喜欢一个人是一种感觉，不喜欢一个人却是事实。
事实容易解释，感觉却难以言喻。

通常，每一个内心强大的女人背后都有一个让她成长的男人，
一段让她大彻大悟的感情经历，一个把自己逼到绝境最后又重生的蜕变过程。
一个拥有强大内心的女人，平时并非是强势的咄咄逼人的，
相反她可能是温柔的，微笑地，韧性的，不紧不慢的，沉着而淡定的。

喜欢你的人，要你的现在..
爱你的人，要你的未来..

不要站在旁边羡慕他人的幸福，其实自己的幸福一直都在你身边。
只要你还有生命，还有能创造奇迹的双手，
你就没有理由当过客、当旁观者，更没有理由抱怨生活。
因为只要努力，幸福伸手就可以够得着。

往往喜欢一个人的时候，不需要任何理由..
不喜欢一个人的时候，却拥有很多借口..

假如你想要一件东西，就放它走。
它若能回来找你，就永远属于你；
它若不回来，那根本就不是你的。

最佳的报复不是仇恨，而是打心底发出的冷淡，干嘛花力气去恨一个不相干的人。

如果不幸福，如果不快乐，那就放手吧..
如果舍不得，如果放不下，那就痛苦吧..
我现在才知道，不了解一个人，还可以爱他..
我现在才了解，不爱一个人，还可以思念他..
有些人不经意出现，意外的给你惊喜。
曾以为他是你生命中的神，可以拯救心灵的干渴，
其实错了，有些人注定只是人生里匆匆行走的过客..

你最爱的，往往没有选择你..
最爱你的，往往不是你最爱的..
而最长久的，偏偏不是你最爱也不是最爱你的，只是在最适合的时间出现的那个人..

我尽可能不去缅怀往事，因为来时的路不可能回头。
我当心的去爱别人，因为比较不会泛滥。
我爱哭的时候便哭，想笑的时候便笑，只要这一切出于自然。
我不求深刻，只求简单。

如果一个男人真的爱你，他不会冷落你超过三天，因为想念你的日子很难过..
如果一个男人真的爱你，他会觉得你是最好的，不会将你和其他女人比较，即便你并不优秀；
如果一个男人真的爱你，他会时时想着让你开心，不会让你流泪；
如果一个男人真的爱你，他会默默地付出一切，但很少让你知道他所做的牺牲。

你要相信，有一个人正向你走来，他会带给你最美丽的爱情。
你要做的只是在那个人出现之前，好好的照顾自己。

伤心并没有用，如何让自己好好地生活才最重要。
爱情虽美，却不是生活的全部：天长地久，海枯石烂的爱情微乎其微。
相濡以沫，白头偕老的婚姻却随处可见。离去的是注定今生错过。
属于你的，一定在某一个地方等着你的出现。

遇到你真正爱的人时：
要努力争取和他相伴一生的机会，因为当他离去时，一切都来不及了..

遇到可相信的朋友时：
要好好和他相处下去，因为在人的一生中，可遇到知己真的不易..

遇到曾经爱过的人时：
记得微笑，因为他是让你更懂爱的人..

人最悲哀的，并不是昨天失去得太多，而是沉浸于昨天的悲哀之中..
人最愚蠢的，并不是没有发现眼前的陷阱，而是第二次又掉了进去..
人最寂寞的，并不是想等的人还没有来，而是这个人已从心里走了出去..

小时候，希望自己快点长大，长大了，却发现遗失了童年..
单身时，开始羡慕恋人的甜蜜，恋爱时，怀念单身时的自由..
很多事物，没有得到时总觉得美好，得到之后才开始明白..
我们得到的同时.. 也是在失去..

忘记一个人，并非不再想起，而是偶尔想起，心中却不再有波澜。
真正的忘记，是不需要努力的。

节日会让幸福的人更幸福，孤独的人更孤独。

人生短短数十载，最要紧的是满足自己，不是讨好他人。
每个人总有不愿意公开的秘密，千万不要苦苦相逼。
无论怎么样，一个人借故堕落总是不值得原谅的，越是没有人爱，越要爱自己。

爱一个女孩子，与其为了她的幸福而放弃她，
不如留住她，为她的幸福而努力..

维系一段感情的，不是坦白，
而是考虑到对方的感受，有所保留..

明白的人懂得放弃，真情的人懂得牺牲，幸福的人懂得超脱。
对不爱自己的人，最需要的是理解，放弃和祝福，过多的自作多情是在乞求对方的施舍。
爱与被爱，都是让人幸福的事情，不要让这些变成痛苦..

每天早上醒来，看见你和阳光都在，这就是我想要的未来..

我们常常看到的风景是：
一个人总是仰望和羡慕着别人的幸福，一回头，却发现自己正被仰望和羡慕着。
其实，每个人都是幸福的。
只是，你的幸福，常常在别人眼里..

爱情这东西，时间很关键，认识得太早或太晚，都不行..

有时候，面对着身边的人，突然觉得说不出话。
有时候，曾经一直坚持的东西一夜间面目全非。

有时候，想放纵自己，希望自己痛痛快快歇斯底里地发一次疯。
有时候，别人突然对你说，我觉得你变了，然后自己开始百感交集。
有时候，觉得自己拥有着整个世界，一瞬间却又觉得自己其实一无所有..

生活中最大的幸福就是，坚信有人爱着我们..

当明天变成了今天成为了昨天，最后成为记忆里不再重要的某一天，
我们突然发现自己在不知不觉中已被时间推着向前走，
这不是静止火车里，与相邻列车交错时，仿佛自己在前进的错觉，
而是我们真实的在成长，在这件事里成了另一个自己..

一生至少该有一次，为了某个人而忘了自己，
不求有结果，不求同行，不求曾经拥有，甚至不求你爱我，
只求在我最美的年华里，遇到你..

在你根本不知道我存在的情况下，我其实已经从头到尾、完整的、爱过你十遍了..

One day someone will walk into your life, then you realize love was always worth waiting for…
有一天那个人走进了你的生命，你就会明白，真爱总是值得等待的..

你遇上一个人，你爱他多一点，那么，你始终会失去他..
然后，你遇上另一个，他爱你多一点，那么，你早晚会离开他..
直到一天，你遇到一个人，你们彼此相爱..
终于你明白，所有的寻觅，也有一个过程，
从前在天涯，而今咫尺..

让你哭到撕心裂肺的那个人，是你最爱的人..
让你笑到没心没肺的那个人，是最爱你的人..

有些人不能在一起，可他们的心在一起..
有些人表面上在一起，心却无法在一起..
有些人从没想过要在一起，却自然而然地在一起..
有些人千辛万苦地终于在一起了，却发现他们并不适合在一起..
就算最后，我们没有在一起，至少爱，还是会在一起..

十件你生命中无能为力的事

2011-08-08T14:10:00.002+08:00

因为生活中，并不是只要努力就什么都可以的，不只是你，我们都一样，
这篇文章是写给那些正处于烦恼，迷茫中的人，看了这生命中无能为力的十件事后，
相信你会懂得很多，放开很多..

希望每个看到的人都能够过得开心，幸福！

1. 离你而去的人

离你远去的人，是他失去了你，不是你失去了他。
离开，也许是为了下个路口的更好的重逢..

“离开，生命中注定了太多的离开。”

2. 流逝的时间

时间比水流失的还要快，所以想做的事情就去努力，人这辈子，至少自己得对得起自己。
“人生在世，俯仰之间，自当追求卓越，但有尽其所能。”

3. 倒向你的墙

也许这面倒向你的墙，让你无法呼吸，也许会让你失去一切，
但是如果沉默的接受，那么，倒向你的还是那面墙，
如果你挺起肩膀，抬起头来你会发现很多事情不是向我们想象的那么糟。

“永远不要后退，退到最后无路可退。”

4. 没有选择的出身

有人天生的就是王，有人天生的就是贵族，但是很多人天生的就是平凡，
这个世界上，没有什么不可以改变的东西，尤其你想改变的话。

“追求一切美好的过程是人生珍贵的财富”

5. 莫名其妙的孤独

不管达观还是拘谨，无论高贵还是卑微，谁都可能相遇孤独的感觉，
常常深深地萦绕在不为人所知的寂寞的情怀中。

“其实是知己难求”

6. 无可救药的喜欢

一种很甜的毒药，戒不掉的东西，但喜欢终究是喜欢，不是爱..

“人，一辈子注定了被好多人喜欢，也喜欢好多人。
但是选择只有一个。并要终于这个选择。

爱，又有几个人足够幸运，能够在有生之年，正确的时间，遇到真爱呢？”

7. 无可奈何的遗忘

很多我们以为一辈子都不会忘记的事情，就在我们念念不忘的日子里，被我们遗忘了。

人生总是因为有回忆，而多了分美好。
偶尔的回忆胜过永远的想念。毕竟日子是会越来越好的..

8. 永远的过去

一秒就成为了下一秒的过去，既然很多东西注定要失去的，
那么，我们唯一可以做到的就是不轻易忘记。

读过一句话 -
“当你总是缅怀过去的时候，证明你现在过的并不好。
所以，美好的回忆可以，但绝不留恋。
要永远憧憬，永远在现在努力。”

9. 别人的嘲笑

嘴长在别人的身上，耳朵在自己身上，
说不说，是他们的事情，
听不听，是你自己的事情了，
我们要学会微笑的面对这一切。

“不必去理会..”

10. 不可避免的死亡

生命是个过程，死亡只是必然的结果，
但轨迹是自己的色彩和温度，既然不可避免，那么就更无所畏惧。

“真的希望人是有灵魂的，不要一切皆为虚幻。”

生活中，并不是努力就一定什么都可以..
很多时候，我们也会觉得自己无能为力..
不只是你，也不只是我，大家都一样..

知道时间不可能停留，就没有必要伤春悲秋..
知道感情不可能刻意，就不会为了谁寻死觅活..
知道遗忘总是必然的，就不会为一时的忘却伤感..

知道过去始终是存在的，就没有必要遮掩和炫耀..
知道孤独总是如影随形的，就不会在某一些时刻难以自制..
知道死亡总是在将来的某一刻，就能好好把握现在能做好的..
知道这些，就不必勉强为难自己，心放开了，就什么都好了..

心放淡一点，再淡一点，没有那么多给自己设置的心结，心境也就平和了..

Sharing.分享

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De-motivate

2011-08-01T12:29:00.003+08:00

Suddenly, i lost myself somewhere no where.....

my mission were partly complete..

i need a comfort~~ a better ideas to move myself forward!!!!!

days to days, months to months, years to years, i've been studied part of my teenage life.

after these days, simply do some self-rated on myself, i can configure out my own ability, my standards, and my competency....throughout this weaknesses, which i know i should work smart + work hard few times, times times and timessssss harder than others...

friends, i'm not a strong-hearted & smart girl for you all anymore...................

yes, for every woman in this century would wish that she's the iron woman in others sight, but, it's kinda difficult for me currently... =)

fluctuation rate on my confidence troubling me some time.. roarr~!!!!

yet, i do believe i am able to make myself succeed in some days..for the result, i'll appreciated the hard work effort done by myself and fellow friends who keep supporting me always....

in heart, i get myself fell down for times, getting up on spot?? easy? hard? try better than never try!!!! although feeling down is hurting, yet, it's not a blocker for me to move forward!!! what i need for the moment, i think should be little time, little calm, and little comfort!!

*breath in~~ breath out~~

WHY almost every middle of the semester.... i'll face this kind of mood.... why?? why??

just simply cause of ladies-month?? + mixture of mood leading to final?? + midterm test result?? + ............... [ady tried to avoid relationship case among friends, family]

i am tired of this mood.

feeling helpless.

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Gorgeous little model~

2011-07-31T00:43:00.002+08:00

Awesome!! Her gorgeous looks, charming smile was attracting me all the way... omg!!!

*stund~

Name : Dabora [Débora Silva]

Gender : Female

Age : 14-year-old (1st March 1997)

Nationality : Brazil

Occupation : Modal

Weight : 54kg

Height : 168cm

14-years-old Model.

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态度

2011-07-30T12:40:00.002+08:00

...: 一个人对人生诸事的态度将影响事情的结果 :...

学习为所失去的感恩，也接纳失去的事实，不管人生的得与失，总是要让自己的生命充满亮丽与光彩，不再为过去掉眼泪，努力地活出自己的生命。

生活中，要时时怀有一颗感恩的心。别人的赞美、呵护，甚至别人的指责、嘲讽，都应报以感恩的微笑，因为这一切的一切必将成就我们，让我们突破，让我们成长。“凡是发生必有其因，其结果必有助于我”。这句话重复提醒我，即使失去，也是一种获得，感恩一切，生命就更加精彩。

态度决定你的成绩，态度决定你的人生，如果你的态度出了问题，思嘉，快快更正吧，正确的态度将引领你走向成功之道。加油！！

Motivation.

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站！

2011-07-29T21:29:00.001+08:00

我挣不起自信了～　再次，我跌倒了。。。

"Love With Glove" 2011

2011-07-19T15:26:00.003+08:00

"LOVE with GLOVE"

Organized by, First Aid Society

Theme: "Love With Glove"

Date: 1st July 2011

Venue: Around GF of Block D & E, UTAR Perak Campus

I love this photo so much! Maybe.......it has been a period of time we've no joy and make fun together.

This photo make me smile which it refreshing me the moment they "bully" ChoonYin.

Campus Event.First Aid Society.

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My Collection I

2011-07-18T12:25:00.004+08:00

These days, besides busy with academic tasks...

i was spending my rest time on surfing net~ wohoo!

Guess what i've watched out ?!? ^^

Tadaaa~!!! ^.^v

so so so excited to see these length coming!!

Next target, get my body slim & fit! =^.^=

Don't have intention to buy it.

yet simply for own interest~ ^^

Clothes Collection.

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Motivation for the Day

2011-07-17T22:58:00.002+08:00

When I woke up in the morning lying in bed, I was asking myself:

What are some of the secrets of success in life?
I found the answer right there, in my very room.

The Fan said.......... BE COOL
The Roof said.......... AIM HIGH

The Window said.......... SEE THE WORLD

The Clock said.......... EVERY MINUTE IS PRECIOUS

The Mirror said.......... REFLECT BEFORE YOU ACT

The Calender said.......... BE UP-TO-DATE

The Door said.......... PUSH HARD FOR YOUR GOALS

Carry a Heart that Never Hates.

Carry a Smile that Never Fades.
Carry a Touch that Never Hurts.

HAVE A PURPOSEFUL AND BLESSED DAY!

mailed by WanTheng.tq~ ^^

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roar~~

2011-07-17T09:00:00.003+08:00

Roar~!!!

What a lovable~~~~~~~~tiger! ^.^

look out his murderous eyes!

awksss~!!!

♥❤♥❤ LOVE manful animals so so so so much!! ♥❤♥❤

^.^v

Stay tuned...

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Mixed Taste of Feelings

2011-07-15T10:45:00.004+08:00

在我以往的5年中学生涯里，中一至中五，

“不小心”认识了一班朋友，至今我们可称得上姐妹吧~ ^^

我们之间相处的时间多半是在学校里~ 仅仅还有数次的旅行与聚会~

只可惜，我并没时常参与她们一起举办的聚会~

新婚快乐！

2011-06-30T22:38:00.003+08:00

当我越长大，

就越习惯压抑内心的真实感受，

不再放声大哭放声大笑，

什么都只是淡淡的点到为止。

好像越来越没有什么事，

可以伤心到落泪，

再也找不出，

释放伤感的出口。

如果有时间有机会自由的哭，

总是好的；

如果可以狠狠流出眼泪，

就说明心没有干涸。

现在明明感觉到痛，

却再也无法畅快的流泪。

今夜好好收拾心情吧~ 累了，就放下！

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满意？和平~~

2011-06-30T20:51:00.003+08:00

从我懂事以来，处理事情，人情，往往会遇到不少挫折~~

正常来说，我会不小心疏忽了一些重要的要素~~

平时，当我还没开始实行任务前，我会告诉自己说要尽力把任务给完成，要他人给于我信任，所以会相信自己把任务给一一完成！

可是，到最后，虽我已把任务给完成，自然的会习惯性的去检讨自我，当时就看到了自己种种的疏忽，缺陷~ T^T 比如说：“交代~”

很奇怪的说，有时候，我蛮享受身边的人给我洗洗脑~ ^^ [唉~人生里有多少个会再这样老老实实的抽出时间与你分享你所该知道的一切？]

很可悲的说，我会把他人所说的话三番四次的慎重考虑~此时就会站在一旁与人隔离，默默思考~

很可笑的说，傻的，怎么那么简单的事都没去注意！

很卑微的说，思嘉，你竟然给被击败了，给击败了~ 小妹妹，站起来吧！给自己多一个机会，一时的堕落不是永远的失败！可是……………………[当中，朋友对你的工作效率已退化了~]，稍稍都会很心疼自己~~ 没关系！嘉，相信自己，你是有用的，从错误中学习是没罪的！别一犯再犯！[往往别人只会给你一次机会，只要看看你的结果，接受不到你的，就不会再考虑你的好~ ]

算了吧！

事实总是残酷的~~ 接受吧！这就是人生~ =)

思嘉！加油！！！！！

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+ve sight to OUR Wushu Night event!!

2011-03-22T15:21:00.004+08:00

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!

Wushu Club UTAR Perak Campus organizing their ever 1st big event in YEAR 2011!!

Dear Utarian,

Wushu club is organizing an event called Wushu Night (武术之夜) with the theme of four season which are Spring (春), Summer (夏), Autumn (秋) and Winter (冬).

Price : RM10 per ticket
Transport will be provided for FREE!!!!! ya! F.R.E.E.!!!!!! FREE!!!

This event filled with various amazing Wushu performances according to the four season such as :

Twenty four season drum - Spring (二十四节令鼓 - 春)
Hong Quan - Summer (洪拳 - 夏)
Competition Routine 竞赛(秋)
Tai Chi - Winter (太极 - 冬)

The fun will continue with a comedy session which is 'Fighting for the Bride' (比武招亲)

What are you still waiting for? This is the first time ever UTAR event that will be held in Rakan Muda Complex with the best Wushu performances in UTAR.
Come visit us at our booth at block C Cafeteria, the ticket only cost Rm10 each.

Q&A
1.)Where is Rakan Muda Complex?
It is located near to KTM station. No worries, transportation will be provided during that day.

2.) Is outsider eligible to join this event?
Yes! Non- Utarian are also welcome to enjoy our performances.

For more information / ticket purchasing
Please contact :
Khai : 016-5279489 Matdeson : 017-5711807

No matter you are Wushu Members, Non-members, Perak-ians, Malaysians, International Students, or foreigners.. all UTAR-ians and Outsiders are invited!!! We WELCOME you!!!

Carelessness

2011-03-10T11:58:00.004+08:00

(=.=lll)

Recently, i had lost my numbers of stuff. =S

*sigh~~

what happened to me?? what things goes wrong on me??

urggh~!! my behavior, my attitude! were surprising me a lot! gosh~!!

Mom's gift- watch

brob's gift- pendrive

dad's gift- money [0.o] ya..no doubt. this month i spent A LOT!! is needed for me to spent on. =/

all these gifts were from "near relations", my mom, my dad, my brob. =(

is it an ill omen?? I'm sorry~ I start getting far apart from you all. yea.. I'm not going back home frequently, no phone call in a couple of time, gifts from me when i back home getting lesser and lesser.

Maybe, for you all, as an adult~ may think that im an unfilial daughter in your sight~ i'm emotional, i'm playful.. ya, I admit it, i am emotional and playful enough.

But, please understand me.. I just need you to put an attention on me, not too much, just a little attention will do. I do appreciate it alot!! I've my own planning, i'll try hard to get the best for you.. as ur daughter, just too bad, i'm not that smart, i'm not genius to score everything and get top in the first place. =[

Loneliness of me over here, do you all understand what am i thinking since im young.. I always flashed back my past~ and SAD~ sobb sobb..

The accident served as a warning of what may happen?? [?? still in a question marks ??]

T^T

Phew~~~ *exhaling~ tired of thinking.

Within this week, i've tried to calm down myself and beware on the things happening around me. solving my problems i met one by one.

luckily, few days after i get "mad", all things goes on smoothly! =D cheers!!

No matter how mood recently i get on, happy or sad, mad or calm, nervous or dispassionate, end up it's still a DAY!!

please... please... please...让压力成为您的动力！陈思嘉！加油！！你行的！！

Well, for the month of march, i'm not planning back to hometown!

Emotional.TanSC.March.2011

2011-03-06T13:28:00.002+08:00

back to my dead blog

totally not in the mood.. no one to express my feeling...

everyone have their stuff to busy...

i have my own too..it's kinda many and lots juz like moutain height!!

uhh~!! i was like stuck-ing on the middle road.. im not giving up on it, wil still continue, juz that.. move in a speed of snail.. motion mode~~ =.=::

!! im so down down and down !! argghh~!!

feeling depressed..

feeling upside down...

feeling tired...

feeling disappointed...

trouble me all around with the xxxx mixed feeling!!!!!!!!!

i hate it! i hate it!!! shit man...

hey, girl...

u're Tan Sze Cia,

not other else..

try to psycho ownself with a positive minded!!

again, postive minded!! positive! positive!! positive!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

don't impulse,

don't anxious,

don't nasty,

don't....don't.... and don't.....don't... don't....... T^T

the most important,

don't give up urself!!

everyone will fell down before they get succeed!!

kata pepatah, "pandai pandai tupai, akhirnya akan jatuh juga".

Dearest Agong~

2011-02-06T20:05:00.004+08:00

03.02.2011

It was his big big big-est day~~ ^^

Our Dearest AGong's 83th Birthday~ ^.^

we youngest celebrate with him by inviting related relatives to has dinner together.

it's really wow!! we do enjoyed the warmed environment with joyfulness and excitement. =)

~~Sweetest couples ever~~

Hope AhGong & AhMa stay healthy and wealthy. We LOVE you guys! =D

Happy Birthday to my dearest "Agong" a.k.a. grandfathers! =D

We FIVE!! = "Wiii5"

Lovable Family members ever! All in love, all become one, living together forever! Miss yay!

It's too bad that this year cny I couldn't meet up with my buddies~ =/

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It's Family Reunion Moment!!!

2011-02-02T18:27:00.002+08:00

It's been a history which everyone of us (Chinese) will celebrate family reunion dinner on the night of Chinese New Year eve!

When i'm still naive & young, thought that, "aiyaa~ reunion dinner only maa.. every year also has one laa~ we all sure come back and eat one~BUT!! pause at the moment, my mind changed, why we should has reunion dinner on the night of cny eve?? why it is so important??"

What's the meaning behind that?? @@"

Reunion Dinner

"The reunion dinner, also known as Tuan Nian or Wei Lu, marks a family gathering on the Lunar New Year's Eve and the Chinese consider it to be the most important part of the celebration.

- Tuan Nian:

Traditional Chinese: 团年: (re)unite or grouping year; describing the tradition of family gathering at the reunion dinner.

- Wei Lu:

Traditional Chinese: 围炉 : to circle around the stove.

Children are supposed to return to their families, married couples will go the male's relatives (and to the female's relatives on the second day of the festivities).

If a family member couldn't participate in the grand feasting, his or her presence is usually symbolized by placing an empty seat at the banquet."

It's too bad to heard that one of our family members can't back home reunion with us, due to some reasons, study/work at overseas, health problem, be on bad terms with each other, etc. [touch wood! touch wood!] No matter how, no matter why, losing out one person for the night, it's bring nothing. (i meant value of gathering) T^T

The main purpose of TuanYuanFan is to enhance the affinity at this moment!! It's hard to find the other time to be gather again~~

It's been 16+ years I celebrate together with my family members. Now i understand why it is so important for us.

Dear Parents,

Thank you for making my life so worthwhile. I shall treasure your blood relation and kind hospitality you have given me. =)

Loved,

Girl

Now, it's time for us to celebrate Chinese New Year Eve Reunion Dinner together!! Hope you all have cheerful and joyful night! Enjoy yay!! =)

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Happy Chinese New Year!!

2011-01-29T14:43:00.005+08:00

Happy Chinese Spring Festival!!

The Year of RABIIT!

祝大家：兔气扬眉 · 行大运！！

新年快乐！！

Woahh~~ a year has passed and it's chinese new year again!! Before I continue to move to other things, I would like to thank my boy, parents, lecturers and tutors in UTAR, and of course my dearest friends too! Here is my greetings card to all of you. =)

I will be go on a ride tonight back to Alor Setar, 271km away from Kampar, Perak. My dad will pick me up right here after he ride himself away from KL. I could not ensure that I will be online for the next 8 days but I would probably update my blog about the celebration in my boy's side relatives and grandma's house. =D

Well, we Chinese celebrate Chinese New Year by watching Lion Dance. Two people in a team is required to perform the dance. They would actually perform high difficulty tasks, such as leaping onto 2 meters high metal poles and getting the vegetable, which symbolizes prosperity in Chinese culture. Since young I enjoyed watching people performing Lion Dances and it is not only entertaining but also exciting. Sometimes people do hurt themselves, but those are mostly professionals - so don't try it at home!

~~Wishing that the new year brings lots of prosperity to you and your family~~

...: Happy Chinese New Year :...

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Budget travelling In PENANG!

2011-01-10T16:19:00.017+08:00

Wow!!! What a memorable experience with my best friends!!!

Dude Val, thanks lot that inviting me to join you travel around Penang. =) Although it's really last minutes plan from you. hah! What a funny decision.. =p

Day 1, 02012011 :-

Depart from my house to Val house --> Shahab Perdana --> Butterworth! --> PENANG!!! Here we come.. XD

All the way from Alor Star to Butterworth, we both keep on calling secondary classmates for letting us overnight at their place.(Most of them were study at TARC, Penang) LOLzzz.. padan muka kami~ BUT for me, it's fun!! XD

The bus tickets only cost us RM9.80 per person~~ cheap?? it's depend. =)

At the end, we stayed at XueEr's K-mom's house~ shame shame~ :$ our plan to stay at friends' hostel FAILED!!!

Day 2, 02012011:-

There are a succession of rainy days here. Early morning, we woke up and be sure tidy up before going out.

Hello! I am PuiPui.. XP

Valerie playing with PuiPui while we're waiting the rain to stop. =D

Our plan for today is, meet up Elise Lim at Prangin Mall which near to Komtar. Window shopping among Komtar, Prangin and 1st Avenue.

Around 12 noon, we reached Komtar by dependent Rapid Penang shuttle bus. =D

It's the right time to filled up our stomach before go shopping!! yohoo!! Kenny Rogers is our 1st choice as our lunchy meal~~ hiak!hiak!hiak!!! sapu-jer-laaa~~ =p

Mine one - added Mushroom sauce + Fresh Fruit Salad + Spaghetti

Val's one - added Black Pepper Sauce + Macaroni & cheese + Spaghetti

* I didn't captured Elise's one,cause i just cant wait to eat mine one! slurrpp~~ Yummy!!!

1st Avenue - Dancing machine with 5 steps..

Fashionable Elise - PEACE!

~~~~Shopping moment~~~~

Elise: rest gao gao and take photo first...Don't gan jiong. XD

Day 3, 04012011 :-

2nd night, Tune Hotel (Under Air Asia company). =D

Cheap and comfortable~~

Downtown Penang - Tune hotel | Best Value Hotel, 5 star beds, 1 star prices

luckily, the Rate of the day for double bedroom is affordable for us to overnight there. ^.^

Stuffs which NOT Provided :

Telephone, Radio, Cupboard / Closets, Dressing table, Table, Chairs, Iron / Ironing board
Room Service
Swimming pool, Gym, Spa, Sauna, Meeting room
** Parking available with extra charge (=.=lll)

ADD-ONS:

Early arrival , Late Departure
Air Conditioning (12 hrs at RM12.85 + 6% tax = RM13.62 / 24hrs at RM20 + 6% tax = RM21.20)
Towels + Toiletries (Towel x 1 =RM5.00 + 6% tax = RM 5.30 with a FREE toiletries kit)
Hair Dryer (Rm1 per stay) oh.. dry hair also kena charge oh?? @@"
In-Room WiFi (RM12 per 24hrs)
Luggage Storage (Refer to fee schedule)

- Prangin Mall -

~~LUNCH TIME~~

at ...: "蒸"材实料 :...无味精！实在好吃！！

Me with Elise

Three of us : Val, Elise, and me

Baby-faced Dude: Val

Elise!!! You're acting pretty!! euuuuu~~ XP

nice pic neway.. ^^

Our meals!! steamed rice with fried mushrooms + steamed egg with uncongealed tofu +broccoli

Elise Lim!!!

Meow Sze Cia!!!!! oppss! >.<

My surname is~~~~meow~~ XP

Valerie Tan!!!

Guessing what's she doing over there... hmm...

she's naughty girl just like me! hahaha...

Day 4, 05012011 :-

We had our breakfast at McD nearby Gurney there...

38 Dude- CheChing... =) !!

I strongly recommended this Penang famous Native product shop! Ban Heang Trading~

Bye, Penang, will come over again next time!! =)

Specially thanks to Valerie, Elise, Ghee Leong, Che Ching, Zi Hao.

Appreciate all of your help to drive me all along Penang. I enjoy it!! =D

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2010-12-17T10:39:00.006+08:00

hey guys! I've something to share with you all~

I knew most of us will login facebook daily even every hour! Of course we will go to our page to have a look with a mind thinking: is there any latest notifications sent to us?! rite?

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Kindly recommended :- Tamil movies Part I

2010-12-16T16:30:00.005+08:00

Today, 161210, is the ending of my degree life in Year 1 Trimester 2, I finished my last final exam paper this morning. =) I was glad that all along i'm here, I'm safe, I learned new things, I learned to grow up as my days passed by, I cried, I sorrow, I angry, I smile, I laugh~~ and so so.

Tamil language, which i felt proud and enjoy when learning this language! How awesome it is! It's not difficult, simple, and fun! Thus, I successfully registered it as my foreign language for this trimester. why? =) With my own narrow thinking, i think that i can applied it on my current life (in M'sia) without spending any money or cash for airplane tickets to fly over Indian country then only i just can apply this language over there. Hahaha! save cost, save time and save energy! Lolx! yea, That's one of my reason why i choose Tamil language rather than Japanese or French.

Now, is the time for me to plan on my holidays schedule~ yeah~!!

My Tamil language classmates, Veronica and Jun Leong introduce me some indian bollywood movies. Here they are....... =D

3 idiots Synopsis :-

3 idiots is a comedy of ideas that is as provocative as funny, as wildly entertaining as insightful. A laugh-riot that talks about the most important of human pursuits : self-actualization.

Two friends (Madhavan and Sharman Joshi) embark on a quest for a lost buddy. On this journey, they encounter a long forgotten bet, a wedding they must crast and a funeral that goes impossibly out of control. As they make their way through the perilous landscape, another journey begins: their inner journey through memory lane and the story of their friend - the irrepressible free thinker Rancho (Aamir Khan), who in his unique way, touched and changed their lives. It's a story of their hostel days that swings between Rancho's romance with the spirited Pia (Kareena Kapoor), and his clash with an oppressive mentor, Viru Sahastrabudhhe (Boman Irani). And then one day, suddenly, Rancho vanishes......

Who was he? Where did he come from? Why did he leave?

The friend who influenced and inspired them to think creatively and independently, even as the conformist world called them three idiots. Where is the original idiot now?

Finally in misty mountains of unparalleled beauty, the friends find the key to the secret.

Taare Zameen Par Sysnopsis :-

Ishaan Awasthi is an eight year old whose world is filled with wonders that no one else seems to appreciate; colors, fish, dogs and kites are just not important in the world of adults, who are much more interested in things like homework, marks and neatness. And Ishaan just cannot seem to get anything right in class. When he gets into far more trouble than his parents can handle, he is packed off to a boarding school to "be disciplined". Things are no different at his new school, and Ishaan has to contend with the added trauma of separation from his family. One day a new art teacher, Ram Shankar Nikumbh, bursts onto the scene. He breaks all the rules of "how things are done" by asking them to think, dream and imagine, and all the children respond with enthusiasm, all except Ishaan. Nikumbh soon reallizes that Ishaan is very unhappy, and he sets out to discover why.

*Note: Film is presented in Hindi with English subtitles.

Rang De Bangsadi :-

A young idealistic English Film-maker Sue (Alice Patten) comes to India to make a documentary drama on Bhagat Singh and his contemporaries during the freedom struggle. She recruits students from Delhi University to act in her film. She finds DJ (Aamir Khan), who passed out five years back but still wants to be a part of the University because he doesn't think there's too much out there in the real world to look forward to. Karen (Siddharth), the son of Industrialist Rajnath Singhania, who shares an uncomfortable relationship with his father, but continues to live off him, albeit very grudgingly. Aslam (Kunal Kapoor), is a middle class Muslim boy, who lives in the bylanes near Jama Masjid, poet, philosopher and guide to his friends. Sukhi (Sharman Joshi), the group's baby, innocent, vulnerable and with a weakness for only one thing - girls. Laxman Pandey (Atul Kulkarni), the fundamentalist in the group, the only one who still believes that politics can make the world a better place and finally Sonia (Soha Ali Khan) - the sole girl in the group, tomboy and vivacious spirit, engaged to Ajay (Madhavan) - the dashing air pilot.

The twist in the tale is of course the fact that more than just telling the world, Sue's film makes DJ and his friends stop and stare at themselves for being the actual descendants of these great men and never recognizing and celebrating their courage and spirit. "Rang de Basanti" is a youthful drama, yet light hearted in the moments that the group shares amongst themselves before some incidents effect a serious change.

..: I start addicted with indian movie!:..

oww, that's sounds too bad. watching movie can consider as wasting time?? =)

Hope you all enjoy those movies! Take care!